ENTERING THE AGEING ZONE

ON AGEING

Nearly every prejudice has been dragged into the spotlight and forced to kiss arse—except the one that gets you no matter how virtuous you are.Age-bashing is still the last acceptable public sport.Noticing wrinkles or incontinence pads isn’t the crime.The real gut-punch is the sudden invisibility: you’re quietly written out of the script while the plot races on without you.

Most Gen Xers and Boomers (Kris Jenner, Leonardo DiCaprio and Madonna excluded) have accepted they’re no longer sexually bankable to anyone born after 1999.

Their bodies got the memo but their brains did not RSVP to the retirement party. That’s the problem because longevity = wisdom. And wisdom isn’t something you can cosplay on TikTok.

Old people have survived more history, botched more relationships, outlived more ideologies, wars, recessions and cultural panics than the current crop of explainers can cram into their two decade lives.

They remember life before algorithms turned attention spans into goldfish cosplay, before smartphones murdered conversation, before your entire value got priced in followers and likes. Yet instead of mining that hard-earned depth, society just hits mute.The discomfort isn’t really about their arthritic hips or balding hairline.It’s what their continued existence screams:“You’re next.

Ageing doesn’t just remind the young of being past it, it reminds them the clock is already ticking, the filters will eventually seem futile , and that no amount of plastic surgery or biohacking can negotiate with time. It will proceed—with or without permission—toward the only two items on the menu: ageing or dying. Thus, the moral of this story is: Be kind to the Boomers and the Xers. They are not the exception.They’re just at a more advanced stage of decomposition.

And they still get to decide who inherits all the property no one under thirty can afford.

Rebecca Sylvia

I am a Londoner with over 30 years of experience teaching psychology at A-Level, IB, and undergraduate levels. Throughout my career, I’ve taught in more than 40 establishments across the UK and internationally, including Spain, Lithuania, and Cyprus. My teaching has been consistently recognised for its high success rates, and I’ve also worked as a consultant in education, supporting institutions in delivering exceptional psychology programmes.

I’ve written various psychology materials and articles, focusing on making complex concepts accessible to students and educators. In addition to teaching, I’ve published peer-reviewed research in the field of eating disorders.

My career began after earning a degree in Psychology and a master’s in Cognitive Neuroscience. Over the years, I’ve combined my academic foundation with hands-on teaching and leadership roles, including serving as Head of Social Sciences.

Outside of my professional life, I have two children and enjoy a variety of interests, including skiing, hiking, playing backgammon, and podcasting. These pursuits keep me curious, active, and grounded—qualities I bring into my teaching and consultancy work. My personal and professional goals include inspiring curiosity about human behaviour, supporting educators, and helping students achieve their full potential.

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